Edna Marie

parker

July 5, 1916 – September 20, 2011

A Biography
Personal Details
Born: July 5, 1916, Grayson County, Texas

Died: September 20, 2011, Fontana, California

Education: Ardmore High School, Ardmore, Oklahoma

Employment: Beautician, seamstress, decorator and wedding planner

Religion: Church of the Nazarene, Fontana, California

Husbands: Otis L. Grissom, 1933; John R. Parker, 1935

Children: Franklin Dion Parker, Lillian Parker Bird, Gaile Francile Lawson, Johnnye Louise Gerber

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GROWING UP IN TEXAS

Edna with her mom

Edna Marie Parker was born Edna Marie Potts on July 5, 1916, in Grayson County, Texas, near the towns of Sadler and Pottsboro. This was cattle country located in a rural part of Texas near the Red River. Her mother Ollie Potts and father William Potts were part of the Potts family, which owned vast acres of ranch land in the northern Texas prairie. In 1876 the Potts family had donated a portion of their land for a town and railroad right-of-way, so the Missouri–Kansas–Texas Railroad would extend its tracks westward from Denison to their settlement. Because of the family’s generosity, the railroad came and the town was named Pottsbourgh, later becoming Pottsboro, Texas.

While growing up as a young child, Edna enjoyed the beauty of the plains and the rugged life of raising cattle. After her parents divorced, Edna moved with her mother to live on the Edwards Ranch. Edna learned how to sew using a sewing treadle while her mother milked the cows and helped operate the ranch. Edna had many good memories from her life on the ranch, which included watching cattle drives. There were some bad memories also, which included cross burnings and hooded Ku Klux Klan members invading the ranch property.

When Edna was seven her mother remarried, and she became the stepdaughter of an Irish cattle driver. Her mother’s marriage also brought happiness to Edna, as she now had a new half-sister and half-brother. Unfortunately, another half-sister died in infancy. As she grew older, a new joy occurred when she accompanied her mother on wagon rides to church meetings. There she listened to her mother sing and play the piano for the congregation. She also developed a spirituality which led to a lifelong appreciation for goodness and forgiveness.

When it was time to start school, her family moved north to the town of Ardmore, Oklahoma, staying with her mom’s family. When she was not attending school, Edna would occasionally ride with Grandpa Hale, who was a circuit minister. They would go to country gatherings, where on Sundays he would preach to the small crowds. Edna enjoyed her trips with her grandfather as he would embellish his bible stories, making them exciting for the church crowds and his attentive granddaughter. Edna remembered returning home from the church meetings holding a chicken or BBQ as payment for the preaching that Sunday.

Edna’s mother remarried when Edna was eleven, and she now had four more step-brothers and step-sisters to add to her growing family. Because her mother had contracted tuberculosis, Edna had to help raise the younger children. A growing maturity developed into her first real job. When sixteen, Edna started her professional career, opening up a beauty salon, “Eddie’s Beauty Shoppe,” in a friend’s living room. It was 1932, and America was still suffering from the Great Depression. Money was short as reflected in her charging only 25 cents for a haircut and 50 cents for a facial.

sIX year old Edna with baby sister

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MARRIAGE AND MOVING TO CALIFORNIA

Edna and John in retirement

Edna, with John and her children, leaving for california

   In 1933 Edna married Otis Grissom of Oklahoma City, and she had her first child, a son whom they named Franklin Dion. Two years later she married John Parker of Gary, Indiana, and from that union they had three daughters: Gaile, Lillian, and Johnnye.

Eighteen years later, in 1951 the family moved from Indiana to Southern California. Their new home was in Fontana, California, near Edna’s aunt and uncle, who had helped raise her as a child. They lived in the Fontana house for the rest of their lives and opened a business: the John Joseph Company which was a successful precision tool and fabrication business. While John ran the machine business, Edna indulged in working as a seamstress and decorator. The two were active members of the local Church of the Nazarene, and Edna worked for the church as a wedding planner and bridal consultant.

These were happy years for Edna as she saw her children blossom, get married, and bless her with grandchildren. For the blessings given to them, Edna and John generously supported their church and its missions. Perhaps, the one blessing she cherished most was seeing her children mature and being successful in their own lives.

Credits:

Author: Katherine Currie/Ken Giffard

Photos:

Intro:  Edna in her 50s
Part 1:  The Pottsboro railroad station
Part 2:  The Texas prairie she loved